Boyfriend, Girlfriend – Love and Relationships
Hey there,
in this Post we are gonna have a Look at one of the most important Subjects regarding each and everyone but a Robot or maybe A-Sexual Person
Let’s start by getting the core basics out of the way since it’s nothing new and not that interesting to read about:
Everyone wants Love and Everyone wants company to x degree, introverted or not; except for very very few People that may have been traumatized or were born without “it”
Here comes the interesting Part:
Though everybody wants it; most don’t ( really ) get it…
“Yes… doh… Thanks for the great Insight Einstein *rolleyes”
Here is the Thing:
Isn’t it weird how rotten People behave and how unlovable they are even though they want it so bad ?
“Again…Nothing New Sherlock…”
Here you go:
The interesting Thing from the perspective of a social science Professor is the twisted Nature most People apply when it comes to these Things e.g.
Generally put: Most People are the worst and even though some are obviously better or worse than others they all share one common trait:
The complete inability to step out of their dirt even though it’s the very Thing preventing them from getting what they want most: Love or at least someone to talk to once in a while or a little bit of company at least; to not “walk the Earth alone”
and here is the Thing:
Why would they not pair up if they are basically all the same ? Would make mucho sense right ?
Yes but it’s like a bad chef with a shitty restaurant who still doesn’t want to eat at another shitty restaurant so to put it simple:
no1 is into disgusting loser Shit BUT
Why would they not change if they go through great length to do all kinda crazy Shit that they could invest into improving them shitty selves ?!!
It’s because they have reverse gaslighted themselves since Elementary or latest Highschool and completely refuse to step out of their crazy fantasy world where everything is flipped and where they are the opposite of horrible…
-> They simply won’t ever break Character bc this IS their whole Life, because this IS them and they won’t purposely hurt themselves ( biological survival instinct prevent damage core base setting Stuff )
They would rather kill themselves than admit to themselves that they are disgusting loser pieces of shit; even if it means not getting what their heart most desires
And of course bc they ARE pos; it is What they are / What they chose and they will defend this catastrophic decision till death especially because they cannot bare being even more wrong and more stupid, embarassing and loser-y like they already are.
This is the exact reason why they gang up on People who are the complete opposite of them and made the complete opposite decision ( good, bright, senseful People ) so they can protect their ego and fortify the reverse-gaslighting to have a stronger pillar for their crazy fantasy world where everything is flipped and which they WILL defend till Death
The Irony is that there are so many of them that it leaves basically no room for good People to find each other and connect and so once again:
Good People have to suffer because pos People are being pos :/
By the Way: If you somewhat got weirdly caught up in all that and let yoSelf go even though you CAN or could have had it then there are already a multitude of guides giving you at least a rough idea about how to go about dating:
Develop Confidence
Have great Hygiene
Have a clean, comfty Home
Be fair and not a needy Child
Don’t be lazy, boring, snoring or goring
Be realistic but realize that: If yo don’t have the minimum treshhold of Looks to get Something worth getting: Give up on it and buy a High Tech Sex Doll and keep it at “Finding Friends Company”; not joking; DON’T invest in bad Stocks
Exercise to improve Health, Mood and Looks
Invest some Money / Time e.g. Clothing, Renovation, Education
and Make a Move and try to actually go for it
Cheers
Sarabyte
