Someone truely hating you even though THEY did Something to YOU ?
Have you ever come across someone who truely, really, very much FOR REALS hates you even though you are 100% innocent and 100% the victim of the other party, the one that hates you ?
Have you ever been confused as in: “Shouldn’t i fing hate them ?!” …
“After all I’m the victim and I even go out of my way to keep the Peace to a ridiculous degree like da F” … *confused
Yes that is a real Thing and very very crazy, disturbing and for the most Part: plain right EVIL
It is a Form of extreme gaslighting and reverse gaslighting done by the guilty party to such an insane degree that they lose themselves and literally become mad as in crazy because of this false hate that should very much be directed at themselves but:
A: They are such gigantic pieces of shit that they will simply throw it at you and project all their bullshit, insecurities and simply put: bad, embarassing, hateful traits onto you.
B: They use you to fortify their crazy fantasy world where everything is the other way around and in which you are the evil bastard which should just “go away”
C: Deep down they know that they are the evil arsehole not you and you remind them of that by simply existing because you form a contrast making it more obvious that they are delusional, crazy, evil, cringe loser pieces of Shit
D: These Idiots know that you will cut contact one day and not take it anymore and they already hate you for it because they are such piles of vomit having the audacity to hate their victim just like a true psychopath would
It really comes down to them being so evil and so crazy that they just pull that crap and because it becomes their Life and because They completely ruined it anyways and since They are somewhat “checked out” it doesn’t matter to them that it makes their situation worse and so they just continue with it, ironically growing a bigger hate for you 100% based on their own wrongdoing
It’s absolutely bizarre, mental and of course very VERY eviL
To put it simple: They basically hate that they are themselves and not you and that they did this to themselves but since they are such enormous disgusting crazy pieces of shit they just put it all on you and Act like they are you and you are them.
Of course that’s infuriating for the innocent Party, especially because most of the Time it’s completely one sided with one party just being and evil, crazy loser and the other just an innocent Soul who were super unlucky meeting this kind of diarrhea shit person.
Like mentioned above they will only nurish the hate no matter what you do especially because you didn’t do anything wrong what so ever in the first Place and again: ironically they hate you the most for that because it reminds them of what they are: an evil, crazy loser and NO ONE wants to ever be that, no matter how cool they act.
Rest assured: At night they cry themselves to sleep and the next morning it will only take mere seconds for them to be back into their shit Life remembering how much they suck and how much they deserve nothing but a horrible illness to be struck with
AND AGAIN: since they are such demented, vile psychopathic Motherlickers they will simply continue trying to project it all onto you and desperately try to uphold the crazy fantasy in their crazy head where everything is the other way around as in Day is Night and Black is White
And even if you manage to break them out of it They will try to downplay it trying to save some of their crazy flipped Fantasy world
We wrote about that already but wanted to do a little more and dish out a reminder of why certain people hate you so so much without any apparant reason other than them being crazy or maybe a bully or troll.
-> cut contact with these psychos and never look back or at least try to minimize your interaction with them crazies