Projecting What is it ? and Why it won’t work 🍋
Projection
someone is trying to pin his experiences and character traits on someone else to somewhat shove the bad Things away to psychologically sweep traumas under the rug and to put it simple…
to…
“Make it all go away” | No matter the cost EVEN if they have to destroy Someone else’s Life” which is btw an f-ed up Thing to do :/ so Shame. On. You. ( most People )
People who do this hope to resolve their many issues like that BUT
It. Does. Not. Work.
We have tons of Data proving that People will only worsen their Situation making it harder to work through Stuff later in Life
Besides it being very annoying and very unfair to the target of the project0r it will just amplify the Problems of the traumatized Chump
Most People do it because they are too lazy and too embarassed of their Past and rotten Character so they try to find the “1 in a Million” who did not have this happen to them and who are on top of it mentally well
It’s strongly connected to a sick Persons crazy plan to convince themselves that everything is the other way around ( gaslighting / reverse-gaslighting ) meaning:
*It wasn’t them who got raped but you
*It isn’t them who is gay but you
*It isn’t them who have issues but you
*It isn’t them who is a weirdo but you
…the classic projection route
personally I have dealt with tons of people trying to project their bullshit onto me and They always End up hating me for not playing along…
btw: do not play along and help with the sick Act of flipping Things upside down because
A: It’s a Lie and it always backfires
B: It won’t help them; quite the opposite ( enabling )
C: It will cause you Problems because “the whole village” soon expects you to play some kind of scapegoat role with a sick wish for you to kill yourself to “have the bad things be gone with you” just like in the Movie the Exorcist where the Priest would purposely lure out the Demon from the little girl to be possessed himself to then jump outta a window dying on impact and by that also killing the demon
-> They actually truely hope that this will work because they are so desperate, evil and lost that they “just don’t care no more” and:
Do you now Think it’s a good Idea to play along and “Do them this favor because it doesn’t hurt you because you know it’s all bs”
Again: DO NOT let them project their issues onto you, DO NOT play along with this whole scapegoating bullshit
And for the People who can still be saved: Do yourselves a Favor and work through your traumas / psychological issues so you have a Chance for a better, stable Life without constant bitterness and the need to convince yourselve that Day is Night and Black is White
Do the Work Lazies ❗️ Man up ✅
You’r very Welcome
Sarabyte
