Disaster Grooming or Why you Shouldn’t trust every Hand reaching out

Hey man, gurl or trans yo,

have you ever heard of grooming ?

Yes ? because you didn’t spend the last 100 years in a cave…

Sure but how about:

Disaster grooming ?

No ? Then read on because it’s a thing, a very important Thing you might come across that can be double or even triple as dangerous as the common well known and mucho researched grooming topic dealing with all them rope-abuse-stuff

So What is it ?

It’s a form of grooming done by People who can no longer use the standard grooming tactics in an effective way or at all meaning:

their target or in their sick Heads Prey will no longer fall for the common grooming bit so they need another tool to get what they want namely:

a disaster e.g. heavy weather like a tornado, severe illness or a very bad home or relationship leaving the victim so distraught and generally lost that they try to grab any straw they can and this is the moment the abuser / predator / stalker / sick Fukk comes into the picture to:

play saviour which oc is just another way of grooming the victim trying to gain it’s trust and basically lure them into a trap that might aswell be an actual place / location; an actual booby trap e.g. a basement / hidden-off-grid location-house or what ever scenario for the Sicko to put their sinister plans into Action e.g.

the predator tries to lure the victim ( prey ) into a basement; supposingly safe location to rape them and torment them without the possibility of anyone hearing, saving them

You maybe saying: well that is the common grooming tactic: to attack the prey when it’s most vulnerable

Yes sure but many People DO NOT have this form of grooming on their radar AND very often travel from one bad spot to a worse one thinking it will reduce their pain, suffering overall but might lead to a much worse fate than “just” having some emotionally abusive boyfriend or overly strict household or toxic workplace which of course aren’t fun things to be dealing with BUT:

one must never forget the ABC-Rule:

If A is bad then B might be ( much ) worse and if C is not available to gotta make your own D which would look like tis:

A: toxic Relationship or shitty Parents

B: Rape Relationship or an even more toxic workplace

C: Being rich and buying your own house in a gated community ( the non option )

D: Actually trying to find a Safe Place e.g. in Japan some People would live in an Internet Cafe and doing shitty day labour having an annoying, hard Life BUT
-> They are not getting beaten at their Parents House
-> They are not getting raped at the Uncles House
-> They are not getting killed by joining a Gang
-> They are not having to Walk on Eggshells all Day driving them crazy and making them physically ill

So in our Example the Person FULLY recognising the grooming bit, applying D and generally put REALLY gets “What ( most ) People are like” will chose the actual best small island in the vast Ocean of shitty Islands even though initially the “bigger / greener” Islands seem more fruitful but will simply harbour a ( much) worse Fate .

So: Beware and Try to find your own personal actual Best Island

Cheers

Sarabyte