Lonely People are dangerous 😥 Let us Explain
Hi,
you might be reading the title thinking:
da F are they talking about ?
Have they lost their mind ?
or
Why in the World would lonely People be dangerous ?
Isn’t it People that are tormented, poor Souls just wanting to connect ?
well: Yes and No
The Problem with being loney is that most People CANNOT handle it at all or are so poorly equipped coping with that situation that they may turn to violence, rape, kidnapping or even murder just to feel some sort of ill connection, JUST like in a Hollywood Horror Movie in which some Psychopath tries to overtake the Life of someone or tries to be somewhat “inside the victim” to just have ANY kind of “being close to someone else” to force a “not feeling alone outcome” for the lack of a better description
It’s People so gone and so desperate that they will do literally ANYTHING to be close to someone even if it’s via physical Fighting, Raping, Stalking or the most common form ( e.g. in an Office or School environment ):
heavily clinging to someone and being obsessed with someone which often happens to the “sweet girl next door” or the “sigma good guy” having all the attributes to make the perfect target for these kind of mental patients BECAUSE
They are smart, interesting, well-rounded, very grounded and simply put:
sane People giving off a nice, comfty Vibe or “Light” which these Psychopaths try to, for the lack of a better description, bath / rest in to lessen the feeling of “being lonely and feeling lost” because these “girl next door” type of People are the “stable rock” which many lonely People so desperately seek out to lessen their general Pain of Life.
Now one might wonder:
Why won’t these psychopatic, desperate People not just pair up with each other or form some kind of skype group chat or go on some kind of Day Trip together ?
It’s because most People can only provide each other with “Basic Herd Company” as a form of protection being part of the group / the big group and having it easier to secure resources to survive but it ain’t emotional resources
They are all lost little Sheep without any “Light” coming from them so it remains a “dark” group where every single Sheep would want to have some sort of personal “rock / light / stability” in their Life just like a Child would try to force a random Stranger to parent them emotionally speaking, to “Feel Safe and Secure with them” even if they have to force them, which of course is a very short lived experience since it’s a completely ill, insane way of dealing with that feeling of: Lost and Loneliness
For the “sigma-rock-stable-grounded-girl-next-door-type-of-person” it’s a complete nightmare which may lead to a physical altercation or continued stalking with the victim having to change names, move their Family or maybe defend their Life from these crazy, lonely nutcases that simply refuse to give up on that “shiny rock” that brought so much Light into their shitty little Life.
Of course this is absolutely sickening, scary and at a certain point definitely very Dangerous and if you haven’t experienced something like that before or to a ( much ) lesser extent then: Do the research / Look at your Life and social circle and try to really come to terms with that very dark and very tricky situation that won’t go away by changing the workplace but will ultimately only be resolved with firm boundaries that often requires the target of this ill directed Love to use physical force to an extent that causes the abuser/ culprit to be “completely gone”
It may sound harsh and the following Advice may sound annoying and hindsighty and not that practical but…
If you really want to get rid of these Crazies you would want to:
not have it become a Problem in the first Place by setting clear boundaries right away and by dealing with these crazy, obsessive monsters with the “necessary Action” no matter how dark this may sound and or feel :/
…
😕
Sarabyte
