Aggression, Manliness and a SLick Appearance
Yo,
have you ever come across some dude that was kinda too young to be that groomed and on top of it would act all manly AND would easily explode as in get angry ( aggression )
Do you know the whole “Roid Rage” bit and does it at least kinda remind you of that ?
BUT with a big Spoon Full of Sadness ? and a hint of confusion ?
Would you just spontaneously Think: “What’s this Guy’s Problem ?” BUT
-> You would not be able to pin point the exact Reason wondering what he is on About:
-> He was molested / raped / brutally raped as a Child / Teenager or even “Adult”
It’s guys desperately trying to prove themselves as Players, having a very groomed Appearance AND they seem to always “be on edge”
…this is because THEY ARE always “on edge” not working through their severe trauma BUT trying to shove it in the back of their minds, trying to heavily surppress what has happened to them and at the same time trying to portray a picture of tough manliness, super confidence and what clearly gives it away: impregnable Hygiene and:
They dress very well or very flashy as in “peacocky”
Even if these traits of a “Raped Child” doesn’t always show it’s because of:
chronic deep depression Route replacing the surppression Route
btw: one should generally stay away from these folks, these “Raped Children of the Corn” ( movie reference ) AND not make Fun of them e.g. calling them: Raped Children of the Corn or Butt munchers or Gay Fish ( Fish Sticks South Park Joke ) or Mudders or Something like dat.
Note: When ever they put Food in their Mouths / Watching a Commercial / Browsing Reddit, Youtube, etc. or Simply going for a Walk -> There is tons of Stuff reminding them of What happened to them making for a very hellish Life and We believe you should not rub it in even if they kinda bring it up themselves all the Time ( most do that ) in what ever way to have some1 force them into Therapy or literally kill them ( most wish to die but definitely won’t admit that )
For Reals: It’s a very serious issue and Parents of Children who got raped would know what an impact it has, especially because they probably got raped themselves and or have raped someone ( Remember: most People deal with some kind of Rope going in all directions and coming in all kinds of degrees )
Again: While girls would mostly withdraw, Guys would “ramp it up” most of the Time heavily trying to build a Facade consisting of “Strong but fake confidence, a strong sense for fashion and the most important give away: They are Players gettin the Girls with the irony being that they can’t even enjoy any of it and if they notice the girl finding out bc they literally start crying then they sometimes would punish the girl for it or even kill her; ALL TRUE
btw: Sometimes raped dudes would go the “Clown Route” acting like everything ain’t that bad and everything is hilarious and basically doing the whole “lighten up -bit” which is just a very desperate attempt to psychologically blanket-downplay everything hoping it will lessen the impact of the trauma by simply: downplaying literally EVERYTHING hoping it will dilute the whole very bad Situation they cannot seem to escape or are simply too embarassed to ever admit that it did happen ( remember they had a literal D in their Mouth and or Ass; done by another “man” or disgusting fat old “woman” or they got tossed around like some Sex Toy; total Lack of Control )
SO: As sad as it might be: As a gurl you need to be super careful around guys like that because even though it may feel super nice having a clean, “taking charge” boyfriend-> IT’S. ALL. A. BLUNDER:
…and the Girls / Women would ultimately just put themselves in Danger and btw:
yo wanne have Bunga Bunga Time ? It ain’t with these dudes because actually XXX requires People to kinda “let go” and ACTUALLY “enjoy the Act”
->Everything else is just fing bs AND YOU NO IT GURLS
Also: NO1 wants to play “forced Therapist” and usually most People just won’t do the whole “working through your issues / problems -bit” and would rather choose to live in complete Denial trying their hardest to LaLaLa-it all away
Remember: You have NO obligation to help any1 if it ain’t your Job and or if you simply don’t want to or maybe simply have nothing to do with it and or them
Watch out: Because many would try to force you to deal with it using you like some kind of crowbar to make you make them open up about it ( That’s something “People” do very often )
…basically trying to abuse some outside force to handle their Problems ( Again: very common )
-> DO NOT get dragged into that mess of a mess AND
-> DO NOT feel guilty for ignoring them / their problems / their crazy and their pathetic attempts to force you to play their Therapist
ALSO
–> DO NOT let them project their issues / their past onto you because it’s a very nasty Thing many Children of the Rape do, trying everything to make it go away even if they “have to” pin it on someone else trying to convince themselves that it happened to you / someone else but not them…
…if they do that then they are pieces of shits anways and why would you want to help a pos ?
Stay away and Stay safe
Sarabyte